Ask the right one.

When the person he claims to love is hurting over something he may have or not done, how can he not offer reassurance?

When the person he claims to love feels disconnected, how can he alienate even more?

When the person he claims to love feels down and insecure, how can he trample and demean further?

When the person he claims to love is upset beyond words, how can he act callous and disinterested for the sake of his pride, rather than bring comfort and show concern?

How can he claim to love but not understand how love works?

Finally. Her lips are unsealed. She has said some things and more. Got a little out of control. She's frustrated, utterly unhappy and let her bubble of anger burst. She admits she didn't handle it well. But it had to be done. She's had enough.

But unloading ire off her chest doesn't always help her breathe easy. At least not like most people. Because unlike most people, she gets table turned on her instead of being comforted. Unlike most people, she is accused of being unreasonable and left out in the cold. Unlike most people, she gets threatened, insulted and punished. This is what she suffers from, dealing with a person not in touch with his emotions.

So many questions. And yet there's only one answer. She already knows, it's quite obvious.

They are the wrong questions.

Ask the right one.